
For about twenty years, three names carried international football. Cristiano Ronaldo. Lionel Messi. Neymar. Fans argued over them, bought their jerseys, and planned their summers around them.
As of today, all three have walked away from their national teams. Each did it differently.
Neymar’s exit came fast and without ceremony. On July 5, Brazil lost to Norway in the round of 16 at MetLife Stadium. Neymar scored a late penalty, Brazil’s only goal. When it ended, he did not wait for anyone to ask.
“I tried. I tried. It started here, and I finished here. It is now over.”
He gave Brazil sixteen years and four World Cups, and he leaves as the country’s all-time top scorer. Ronaldo Nazário publicly urged him to rethink it. Neymar confirmed it anyway. Nobody gave him a farewell game. He chose the moment himself.
Argentina lost the World Cup final to Spain, 1 to 0. On August 31, Messi announced his international retirement after a 21 year run. He leaves with 207 caps and 125 goals, the most in Argentina’s history, 21 of them at World Cups. He won the 2022 World Cup, two Copa Américas and a Finalissima.
Then Argentina gave him the send off he had earned. On October 6, he played one last match at the Monumental in Buenos Aires against Benin. More than 85,000 fans packed the stadium. He scored a penalty and set up two other goals in a 3 to 0 win. A drone show put his face in the sky above the pitch. Afterward he told the crowd he already missed playing for his country.
Ronaldo made everyone wait.
After Portugal’s World Cup exit, speculation grew that he would walk away. Instead, he said he planned to keep playing. Then on September 30, he left Portugal’s training camp in Copenhagen after coach Jorge Jesus said he would not start against Denmark. He apologized afterward and said he was still available.
This morning, he ended it himself in a long video message.
“The day has come for me to hand back the No. 7 shirt.”
He said he never felt the shirt belonged to him alone. He gave Portugal 23 years, from a 2003 debut to six World Cups. He is the all time leader in international goals with 146, and the first man to score at six World Cups. Before he arrived, Portugal had never won a major trophy. With him, they won Euro 2016 and two Nations League titles.
His last match was a 1 to 0 win over Wales in September. The Portuguese federation says it plans a tribute. He is still playing for Al Nassr, and he scored a hat trick there less than a week before announcing this.
For a decade, fans treated Ronaldo and Messi as enemies. The best moment of this stretch came after Messi’s farewell, when Ronaldo wrote to him directly.
“Leo, after so many years of defending your country, you’ve made history that will last forever.”
Two players who spent their careers pushing each other had nothing left to prove, so they said what they felt.
Every athlete’s career ends. What matters is who controls the ending.
Neymar ended his on the field, in his own words. Messi shaped his around a stadium full of people who loved him. Ronaldo took his time and then said it himself, without waiting for anyone to hand him a farewell.
None of it was handed over. Three of the biggest names the sport has ever known are showing that the ending belongs to the athlete.
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